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Understanding Depression: A Comprehensive Guide

Updated: Dec 6, 2023


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What is depression?

Depression (also known as major depression, major depressive disorder, or clinical depression) is a common but serious mood disorder. It causes severe symptoms that affect how a person feels, thinks, and handles daily activities, such as sleeping, eating, or working.

To be diagnosed with depression, the symptoms must be present for at least 2 weeks.

There are different types of depression, some of which develop due to specific circumstances.


Differentiating between sadness and clinical depression.

Depression is not just sadness. the difference between feeling a bit down and dealing with clinical depression. We all have those days when we're not exactly on top of the world, right? It's a normal part of life to feel sad sometimes, especially when you're going through tough stuff like losing someone special, getting laid off, or facing life's letdowns. This kind of sadness is like a rain cloud that passes – you feel it, but then it moves on.

Ever had those days where you just want to chill by yourself? Totally normal! Sometimes, we all need a break to just be and recharge our batteries. It's healthy to step back and enjoy some quiet time away from the hustle and bustle.

But here's the deal with depression: it's like being in a completely different boat. Depression isn’t about just feeling down now and then. It’s like this heavy feeling of sadness that doesn’t take a break. Imagine feeling low and disconnected pretty much every day, and it just doesn't ease up. It's not something you can just snap out of, no matter how much you wish you could or what others might say. Depression is deep-seated, and it's not something you can simply talk your way out of.

This brings us to something major – how depression affects your life. When you're dealing with depression, doing the normal day-to-day stuff can feel like climbing a mountain. It can throw a wrench in your work life, home life, and even your relationships. It's like your usual functioning takes a hit.

So, that's the scoop on the difference between feeling temporarily sad and experiencing clinical depression. Remember, it's okay to feel down sometimes, but if it's something heavier, it's super important to reach out for help. Your feelings are valid, and there's support out there. Stay awesome, and take care of you!



  • Feelings of Emotional Turmoil: Individuals with depression often experience persistent feelings of sadness, tearfulness, emptiness, or hopelessness.

  • Mood Swings and Irritability: Depression can lead to angry outbursts, irritability, or frustration, even in response to minor issues.

  • Loss of Interest and Pleasure: Many individuals lose interest or pleasure in activities they once enjoyed, such as hobbies, sports, or social interactions.

  • Disrupted Sleep Patterns: Depression can cause disturbances in sleep, either in the form of insomnia or oversleeping.

  • Fatigue and Reduced Energy: Individuals often experience fatigue and a lack of energy, making even simple tasks feel challenging.

  • Changes in Appetite and Weight: Depression can affect appetite, leading to either a decreased desire to eat and weight loss or an increased craving for food and subsequent weight gain.

  • Restlessness and Anxiety: Feelings of anxiety, agitation, or restlessness are common symptoms of depression.

  • Cognitive Impairment: Depression can slow down thinking processes, speech, and physical movements.

  • Feelings of Worthlessness and Guilt: Individuals may experience feelings of worthlessness, excessive guilt, fixation on past failures, or self-blame.

Depression Symptoms in Kids and Teens

Depression signs in children and teenagers are a lot like what adults experience, but there are some differences.

  • For Younger Kids:

    • Feeling really sad

    • Getting easily upset

    • Being very clingy

    • Worrying a lot

    • Complaining about body aches

    • Not wanting to go to school

    • Being too thin or losing weight

  • For Teens:

    • Feeling very sad

    • Getting easily upset

    • Feeling like everything is bad or useless

    • Getting angry a lot

    • Not doing well in school or not going to school

    • Feeling like nobody understands them and being very sensitive

    • Using drugs or alcohol

    • Eating too much or too little

    • Hurting themselves on purpose

    • Not enjoying things they used to like

    • Avoiding spending time with others

Depression Symptoms in Older Adults

Depression isn't a normal part of getting older, and it's important to take it seriously. In older adults, signs of depression might not be as easy to notice.

  • Possible Signs:

    • Forgetting things or changing how they act

    • Feeling physical pain or discomfort

    • Being very tired, not hungry, having trouble sleeping, or losing interest in intimate relationships (not because of a health issue or medication)

    • Preferring to stay home instead of going out or trying new things

    • Having thoughts about hurting themselves, especially in older men


What Causes Depression

  • Biological Differences:

People with depression seem to have changes in their brains. We're not sure exactly what these changes mean, but they might help us understand the reasons for depression better.

  • Brain Chemistry:

In our brains, there are natural chemicals called neurotransmitters. They likely play a role in causing depression. Recent studies show that how these chemicals work and affect our moods might be a big part of why depression happens and how we can treat it.

  • Hormones:

Sometimes, changes in our body's hormones can be linked to depression. This can happen during pregnancy, after having a baby (postpartum), or due to problems with the thyroid, menopause, or other health issues.

  • Family Connection:

If some of our family members have had depression, it's more likely for us to experience it too. Scientists are trying to find specific genes that might be connected to causing depression.

African man facing Depression and friend try to help him

When to get emergency help

If you think you may hurt yourself or attempt suicide, call 911 in the U.S. or your local emergency number immediately.

Also consider these options if you're having suicidal thoughts:

  • Call your doctor or mental health professional.

  • Contact a suicide hotline.

  • Reach out to a close friend or loved one.


How to Treat Depression?

Depression is something we can work on and improve. Many people, about 80% to 90% of them, feel better when they get help for depression.

Here are ways to help treat depression:

  • Talk Therapy (Psychotherapy):

Talking with a mental health professional helps. They help you figure out and change how you feel and think. The most common type of talk therapy is called cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). Sometimes, just a few sessions can make a big difference. Others find it helpful to keep talking with a therapist for a few months or even longer.

  • Medicine (Antidepressants):

Special medicines called antidepressants can change how our brain works when we have depression. There are different kinds, and it might take some time to find the right one for you. Sometimes, they might have side effects, but they often get better. If not, it's important to tell your doctor so they can try a different medicine.

  • Additional Healing Methods (Complementary Medicine):

Alongside regular treatments, some people find other therapies helpful. Things like acupuncture, massage, hypnosis, and biofeedback can make a difference, especially if your depression isn't too severe.

  • Special Treatments for Severe Cases (Brain Stimulation Therapy):

In really tough cases of depression, special treatments for the brain can help. These include electroconvulsive therapy (ECT), transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS), and vagus nerve stimulation (VNS). They're used when depression is very serious or when someone is struggling with their thoughts and reality.

You can also do things on your own to feel better:
  • Stay Active:

Regular exercise is great for feeling better mentally and physically.

  • Sleep Well:

Make sure you get enough good-quality sleep. Not too much, not too little.

  • Eat Healthy:

Eating the right foods makes a big difference. Nutritious meals can help you feel better.

  • Stay Away from Alcohol:

Alcohol can make depression worse, so it's good to avoid it.

  • Spend Time with Loved Ones:

Being around people you care about can lift your mood and make a positive difference in how you feel.



Depression is a serious problem that can really affect you and your family. If you don't get help for it, things can get even worse, causing problems with your emotions, actions, and health that impact your whole life.

Here are some difficulties that can happen due to depression:

  • Gaining Too Much Weight:

This can cause heart issues and diabetes, which are very serious health problems.

  • Feeling Pain or Getting Sick:

Depression can make your body hurt or cause other health problems.

  • Using Too Much Alcohol or Drugs:

Some people turn to these things to cope with their feelings, but it can lead to even more problems.

  • Being Really Worried or Afraid:

Anxiety, panic attacks, and being very afraid of social situations can come with depression.

  • Problems in Relationships and Work or School:

It can make it tough to get along with family or do well in your job or studies.

  • Feeling Alone and Avoiding People:

Depression can make you want to be by yourself and not spend time with others.

  • Thinking About Suicide or Hurting Yourself:

Depression can sometimes make people have thoughts about ending their own life or hurting themselves.

  • Hurting Yourself on Purpose:

Some people hurt themselves as a way to cope with the pain they're feeling inside.

  • Health Issues Leading to Early Death:

In severe cases, depression can even contribute to medical problems that can cause a person to die earlier than expected.


Risk factors

Depression usually starts when you're a teenager, in your 20s, or 30s, but it can


begin at any age. More often, girls and women get diagnosed with depression, partly because they tend to seek help more.

Here are some things that can increase the chances of you having depression or triggering it:

  • How You Think and Feel:

If you often feel really bad about yourself, depend too much on others, criticize yourself a lot, or always expect the worst, it can make you more likely to have depression.

  • Tough or Bad Experiences:

Going through difficult or painful events, like abuse, the death of someone you love, a hard relationship, or money troubles, can increase your chances of getting depression.

  • Family Background:

If your relatives, like parents or siblings, have had depression, bipolar disorder, issues with alcohol, or have attempted suicide, it can make you more susceptible to depression too.

  • Sexual Orientation or Gender Identity:

If you're lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or if your body doesn't clearly develop as male or female (intersex), and you're not in a supportive environment, it can put you at a higher risk of depression.

  • Previous Mental Health Problems:

If you've had other mental health problems before, like extreme worries (anxiety), problems with eating, or feeling the after-effects of a bad experience (post-traumatic stress), it can make you more likely to experience depression.

  • Drinking or Drug Use:

If you often use a lot of alcohol or recreational drugs, it can contribute to having depression.

  • Long-Term or Serious Illness:

Dealing with a severe or lasting health problem, such as cancer, a stroke, constant pain, or heart issues, can make you more prone to depression.

  • Certain Medicines:

Some medications, like certain ones for high blood pressure or sleeping problems, can also make depression more likely. Always talk to your doctor before stopping any medication.


The Many Faces of Depression

Depression is a bit of a chameleon. It doesn't look the same for everyone. For some, it's a constant feeling of emptiness or hopelessness. For others, it might manifest as irritability or a lack of interest in things once loved. It's this variability that makes it so tricky to understand and, often, to diagnose.


Depression is a formidable opponent, but you don't have to face it alone. Seek help, reach out to a mental health professional, or confide in a trusted individual. Your journey to recovery begins with that crucial first step. Remember, understanding depression is the foundation, but taking action and seeking support can lead you to a path of healing and renewed hope. Reach out today – you deserve a brighter tomorrow.


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